|
Coyote Attitudes |
|
| home |
|
|
| Coyote's Curious Medicine Adventure
10-Week Exercise in Personal Growth -- FUN ! NEW
! Results from the Study are in ! How Do You Do The
Medicine Adventure?
|
||
|
|
||
| What
is it?
The 10-week exercise in personal growth and FUN is called "Coyote's Curious Medicine Adventure" It is intended to support John Cawley in fulfilling part of the requirements of his candidacy for Doctor of Spiritual Science through Peace Theological Seminary www.pts.org. As a spiritual scientist, John wonders what make his life successful, fulfilling, rewarding and effective. As he has discovered clues and recipes, he wants to find out whether they are practical and repeatable for others. This is where you come in. You are potentially a study participant who can practice my protocol for 10-weeks and report back on the results. Then John will compile and interpret the results and present them with other findings in the form of a written treatise. Why 10 weeks? See FAQ.
|
||
| Is
it for
me?
Do you have from 5 to 15 minutes per day you can commit to playfully experimenting with some (slightly) different approaches to your life? If so, read on. Think you'll be able to establish a goal (or intention) you'd like to work on during the 10 weeks (but which you DO NOT have to complete)? OK, even better. Think you'll be able to identify a hindrance (explanation) that gets in the way of your greater success? Fine. Do you imagine you could figure out some qualities that would help you balance out or transcend or overcome your hindrance? If so, you're ready to go to Getting Started. How to know if this IS NOT for you. You are starting something very big that is very new and you know it will push you into very high stress levels. Probably not the right timing for participating in this program.
|
||
| Getting
Started Contact John at info@coyoteattitudes.com to obtain the materials for this pilot program. Available for a limited time only!
|
||
How do you do
Coyote's Curious Medicine Adventure?Getting ReadyChoose a realistic goal you care
about. You don't have to obsess over your goal.
That's part of the beauty of Coyote's Curious Medicine Adventure.
We suggest you take a slightly playful approach. A curious
approach. A really great goal for this process is one you can
make at least small progress on each day. Also, it will be easier
for you if you have a way of measuring your progress. If you are participating in the field study, you'll be focusing on this goal for 70 days. You don’t have to complete the goal.
Review the materials and choose an animal ally with positive traits that can help you overcome your hindrance(s) and achieve your goal. If you find my list of 13 animals insufficient, I encourage you to choose a different animal, or some other positive role-model. They look for “clues” that could lead you to their goal. A clue is any kind of hint from within or without that gives you inspiration or information about how to achieve your goal. Clues can come from animal allies! Yes, you might ask their animal ally to give you a clue or some inspiration. Or a clue could come from a friend who is acting as an ally. Or, clues can come from unexpected sources – a highway billboard, something year hear on the radio, a cloud pattern in the sky. Then, of course, perhaps the most important
step, take action towards your goal. This
is unique to your and your specific goal. I'll answer some frequent questions right
here? Q:How
do I look for clues?
A: Discover how to make it work for you. This isn't just a clever evasion. You will naturally form your method as you do it. If all else fails, set a fixed time during the day and ask yourself, "Is there any clue available to help me towards my goal?" You can reach out to an ally: "Mountain Lion (invoke the appropriate ally), what would boldly take me closer to my goal?" Then listen for a response. Notice I say "response" instead of "answer." "Response" indicates it might just be a direction or a next step. Relax with this. This isn't a competiion with anyone, least of all yourself. Maybe your first step is to discover if there is such a thing as "clues" for you. Fine. No shame in this. Check it out. It isn't an adventure until you start exploring. It isn't curious until you poke around into something different. It isn't Coyote until you are playful enough to play with the allies. Hey, guess what? Some days you don't need any clues. The next step is in blazing sunlight and so you just DO IT! Great. Q: How big of an action is a "goal action"? A: It is up to you. During challenging times, it can help to break the goal down into "baby steps." No, this doesn't make you a baby! It makes you a saavy navigator of your life. Exploring the intersection of allies and a curiously playful attitude can bring in factors previously "unknown." A very small action done differently from your previous approaches might make a huge difference towards your goal. OK, enough explaining! Assessing Results at the End of the DayAt the end of the day, evaluate your
experiences on a
simple one-page form. If you are just doing this
from the WEB, use a single standard sheet of paper. If you have
purchased the book or you are in the academic study, you will have a
special form that guides you. Mention any
hindrances you experienced. Then note they allies
you contacted or who inspired you. When
you've bought the book or are in the academic study, I provide a
template for stickers with the images of the
animal allies on them. These print on
standard ¾ inch
round labels. So, with the stickers, you
can just place
the Mountain Lion sticker on the page where they were inspirited to
have more
courage. List the actions you took
toward your goal. Noted any clues
you found during the day. Note any unexpected events, serendipities,
or times you did things differently. On my daily pages, I
like to draw arrows to show how I moved out of a hindrance with the
help of an ally
to make productive progress on a goal. Finally, write down the number of clues you
found, the number of
goal actions and a numeric score in the range of 0 to 5 for the level
of
hindrance you experienced and the level of joy you experienced.
The scales are available in the book. Set yourself a major checkpoint. I
suggest two months. That gives you time to progress on your goal
and also get the hang of how the allies work. Several folks
have obtained very positive results in less time. Remember, this
is highly individual. Some folks come to this ripe for personal
change and experienced in self assessment. Others are learning their
way into it. If you are in the study, you contineu for 70 days, then fill out a post-study questionnaire. |
||
| Who are these animal
allies? Here are the essence qualities of the allies. Buy the book to obtain the original art image for each animal and other orienting information. Your Animal Allies Coyote
Divine wisdom/foolery Rabbit
Reproductive power, renewal Frog
Water song, water aware Hawk
Higher picture Rattlesnake
Transformation via shedding Hummingbird
Knowing where to find nectar Bear
Trust of the unconscious Owl
Silent wisdom, uncanny
sight Mountain
Lion Decisiveness in
personal power Deer
Gentleness, innocence Opossum
Surrender, play dead to come alive Mockingbird
Discover your sacred voice
Animal
images in Coyote's Curious Medicine Adventure
book are provided by Mark Andresen, illustrator. www.markandresenillustration.com
|
||
| Results They liked it! It worked! Their goals?
One person had a goal of finding a job more
aligned with her values. She apologized to stop the study a few
days early because . . . she got the job! Most participants reported rewarding yet
unexpected side benefits. They learned how to be more patient
with themselves. One person, a veteran of spiritual studies for
decades, reported that she had come to appreciate herself, even like
herself more through the study.
|
||
| FAQ | ||
| What about confidentiality?
Your openness and honesty in your self-exploration will give both of us the greatest value. I hold your material in confidence. I treat it as private. I do not reveal your identity to anyone, either in the published manuscript of my study paper or in any oral communications. Your identity in your pre- and post-study questionnaires is indicated by a number that I have filled in. In the finished work, your identity will be represented by a number. My research will benefit a great deal from my ability to read your journal pages. However, if there are some pages that are too personal, please omit them when you send me your materials. If you have additional concerns about privacy and confidentiality, contact me.
|
||
| Why 10 weeks?
Completing the study involves participation for 10 weeks. Yes, this may be a big commitment for some folks. Psychologists and researchers have found that humans experience many cyclical rhythms in their lives. There are particular patterns that presents challenges in the 2nd month after you institute a new behavioral pattern. So, by running the study for 10 weeks, we outlast this particular pattern. Cool, huh?
|
||
| Is this totemism?
Nope. Read Coyote’s humorous rebuttal to this in the introduction. We enlist the animal traits as a fun way to access our own positive qualities. Qualities you read about in the animal allies already exist inside you. Contact your ally, and you're really contacting yourself (but don't tell them I said so.) We do this in a spirit of curiosity, playfulness and adventure to try on new perceptions and behaviors – all with an intent of navigating more effectively towards our goals.
|
||
| Is this serious work?
This
process is carefully designed (can you hear Coyote laughing at me?) to
be loads of fun, yet still provide considerable benefit to you!
When you are doing it as part of my academic study, you also generate
valuable data for me.
|
||
| How do I “rate” myself on
the questions with scales?
Do your best. Use the guidelines included in the question. Don’t second guess yourself. Just be natural and provide the best response you can. If you want, you can make personal notes as to what the different numbers mean specifically to you. Feel free to also make additional notes to yourself on any of the forms.
|
||
| Is the goal important? Why do I need it?
Yes, very important. Having and pursuing a goal is a key component of this field study. Pursuing a goal grounds the study principals into everyday practicality. This is where the paws meet the dirt. In the study, you have the potential to learn how to make goal-seeking strategies more fun, more relaxed, and more natural.
|
||
| Is this spiritual? Do I need to believe in God?
Yes and no. The study doesn’t impose any spiritual beliefs or ask you to change your relationship to a higher power. The “Coyote teaching” is intended to be a playful way of inviting you to consider other points of view. On the other hand, the study is about helping you fulfill your goals, which may be personal, deep and sacred to you. And, the study is about helping your improve your inner communication with YOU, yourself. This may be very spiritual, or highly functional, or FUN, or all of the above.
|
||
| How long will it take to
do this each day?
Good question. At first you are learning the procedures and it takes a little more time. After that, the morning question may take about 1 minute. The evening sequence of journal questions and rating questions may take from 5 minutes to about 10 minutes. Some days you will have a lot to report on and you’ll want to write more. On other days a couple of words may be all you have. Feel free to spend more time as you are moved to. Despite Coyote’s slacker, wise-guy stance, his world is also a “you get out of it what you put into it” world. Please make entries every day, even if it is just a few words. Your consistent entries will make it easier and easier to do this day by day. It is very important to fill in the rating questions. Once a week or so, I’d like you to do more extensive activities. If you’re clever like Coyote, you’ll find a way to combine this with activities you are already doing.
|
||
| What’s the best way to
remember to do this every day?
Be smart. Put your journal materials where you will see them every morning and every night before you go to bed. If you’re traveling, take the pages you need and follow the same advice. Set up a system to have a partner, roommate, etc. remind you.
|
||
| How much should I write?
It depends mostly on you. It is possible to do this exercise very successfully without writing a lot of words. Map reckoning is your required journal and takes a slightly different approach. It doesn't rely only on words, but also adds images and other visual and spatial indicators to help you become more involved in your own exploration. In other words, using Map reckoning, you can communicate more with fewer words because you are also using other cues. Journal writing serves two purposes. 1) Your journals help me evaluate this field study – a required part of my doctorate. Thanks for your help! 2) The study also may give you valuable insights about yourself. Please be open and honest. That will produce the greatest value. “Dry spells” are natural. And, on some nights, material may come flooding out. Do your best.There is an optional journal form you can use if you want to make more expanded verbal responses. . |
||
| What if my journal writing
reveals something upsetting to me?
Important question, I’m glad you asked. Please review the disclaimer in the introduction. If your upset is severe, I suggest that you seek appropriate professional help. For concerns that are not severe, I recommend the following approaches: 1. Use the techniques in this study. Be creative. Start by assuming that you are bigger that this disturbance. Explore it and play with it and see where that takes you. 2. You can use a process of self-forgiveness. See appendix on this topic 3. Reach out to your support system: partner, minister, friend, animal (or other) ally, etc.
|
||
| Definition
of Terms
|
||